I saw a girl

I saw a girl lying in pain in the hospital.

I saw her mom crying in pain beside the bed.

I saw the girl ignoring her mom, throwing a tantrum.

I saw the mom begging her to listen, while the doctors treated her.

I saw the pain of a parent loving her daughter so desperately.

I saw the ignorance of the daughter of the mother’s love.

It got me mad.

Mad of why a child so selfish.

Mad of why a mother so selfless.

Mad of the ungrateful daughter.

Still, life goes on and the daughter will learn.

Someday, that she will lose a caring mother.

Someday, she will suffer in regrets and remorse.

May she meet someone, who could tell her that she has the greatest mother on earth.

And may she learn from them, the importance of filial piety.

 

失望

突然觉得，有些人，真的很自私。为了自己，不管他人。

我最不喜欢的人，就是帮了您又要给您脸色看的。

如果不要帮，就干脆把它忘了。我也不想要这种人的帮助。

做人不需要这么自私的。如果不想要帮人，就直接说声：“我不想帮你”。

我也不需要浪费时间，期望您的帮忙。真是费时，费力气。

就像这种高傲自大的人，不需要您的帮忙。真是浪费时间。还是靠自己好了。

所以做人，一定要记得。。。

尽力而为。。。

我已经尽我的能力去做我应该做的责任了。如果还是觉得我做得不好，请过来帮手，不要在一旁说我办事能力差。

不是我没有用心去做，而是我根本不曾做过这样子的事。我能做的，也是尽力而为。。。

再此，感恩那些帮我的人，感恩那些来关心我的人。

简单说一句。。。

简单说一句：

懒惰，爱美又爱玩的女人，是没有勤劳的人喜欢的。

就是那么简单。

人要勤劳。。。才有成功的一天。有钱又有什么了不起的？

送大家一句静思语：

I couldn’t believe it!

Just because some students were peeking around for answers…

Just because some students snatch away other friends’/foes’ quiz paper and copy them…

Just because we weren’t prepared for our quiz…

Just because of that… she took the decision to AWARD everyone a

    ‘ZERO’

                            mark for quiz 1… two marks out of 100 marks in the finals.

 

… Unbelievable… And still say that ‘it is a democratic world, you can comment on this matter’ when the decision has already been made…

 

I don’t know whether I should applaud this idea or what…

The Good… to punish those who copied during the quiz…

The Bad… to punish those who worked hard for the quiz…

No point for me to sob towards that 2 marks now….

难道就那么难做朋友吗？

每当别人想要帮助，我就出现。

但，当我要在我的服务上，下一个价钱的时候，都是那么的难。

因为您们没有给我一个机会把价钱放下，就以一句话

“我会请你一餐”

来解决我这位朋友的服务。

难道您们没有想过我需要的时间吗？

难道您们就认为我这位朋友很好利用吗？

难道，您们就要我，狠狠地说一句：“天下哪有免费的午餐？我宝贵的时间和精力就可以以一餐的价值来代替吗？”

但，我一直都忍着。。。甚至还有人认为我是一个“小气鬼”。。。

真是伤了我的心。。。

难道，就那么的难做一个朋友吗？

What do you think?

I have conflicts right now… I give you a few scenarios…

Scenario 1

Person A does not pay attention in class and he/she skips most of the classes… Now it’s test/exam time… He’s seeking my help and expect me to delivery my best to him. Do you think I should help this person A?

Scenario 2

Person B does not intend to study at all and he/she sleeps most of the time in class. But when I’m doing a study group, he’ll / she’ll definitely attend to learn, which is good, but not good at the same time because it’s unfair to others who had put in effort. What do you think I should do in this case?

Scenario 3

Person C always comes into the class late and any announcements made are ignored. This person will come trouble me when then, asking me what are the announcements that he/she missed. I personally feel sick of this problem as I have got so many things to handle and I need to rush a lot of things. Should I just ignore this person or should I ask him/her to refer to someone else? What do you think?

Scenario 4

Person D is taking advantage of what I’m offering most of the time and he/she tends to use me whenever I am available. When I declined to help, he/she would not be happy and would be moody or emotional most of the days etc. It is as if helping him/her is my DUTY… What can I do?

Scenario 5

Person E thinks that I’m his/her best friend, but whenever there is a gathering or luncheon together, he would just ignore my presence. I’m not saying that he/she should always invite me… but the least he/she can do is by not letting me know at all, even after the trip/event. The problem arises when he/she discusses about this thing in front of me but not even allowing me to join in the fun. It hurts. So what’s wrong? How to solve this problem?

These are just some of the problems I’m facing… I don’t want to be selfish but it seemed that I have no choice but the make the best decision for myself. These are the reasons why I had been struggling through this semester. Now that I’ve expressed it, what do you think? Any solutions?

Some of my housemates are JERKS…

The title says it all… Some of THEM are JERKS!

Inconsiderate,

Calculative,

Selfish,

Lazy,

Heartless,

Reckless,

Barbaric HOUSEMATES cum THIEVES….

Play internet games whole day like no body’s business. Kill the whole internet connection for wireless service. Even worse than P2P…

Sick of them… How I wish they can move out NOW instead of 3 months later… I’ve been tolerating their attitude for almost 2 years already. Just sick of them.

There, I said it!

I’m sick…

I’m sick of my life…

I’m sick of people wasting my time…

I’m sick of being so busy in my life…

I’m sick of people trying to make my life miserable…

I’m sick of being tired…

I’m sick of not getting enough time to do all my stuffs…

I’m sick of this challenge…

I’m just sick… so when can this sickness stops?

When can I get the deserving time I need?

When can I finally slow down and enjoy life for a moment?

When can I live a life I appreciate most?

When?

I’m busy with things, not for the community but for school, for clubs, for friends…

I’m busy with meeting deadlines rather than doing what I love most…

I’m just busy…

Taking things seriously…. WHEN CAN I REALLY BREATH FOR A WHILE?