What do you think?

I have conflicts right now… I give you a few scenarios…

Scenario 1

Person A does not pay attention in class and he/she skips most of the classes… Now it’s test/exam time… He’s seeking my help and expect me to delivery my best to him. Do you think I should help this person A?

Scenario 2

Person B does not intend to study at all and he/she sleeps most of the time in class. But when I’m doing a study group, he’ll / she’ll definitely attend to learn, which is good, but not good at the same time because it’s unfair to others who had put in effort. What do you think I should do in this case?

Scenario 3

Person C always comes into the class late and any announcements made are ignored. This person will come trouble me when then, asking me what are the announcements that he/she missed. I personally feel sick of this problem as I have got so many things to handle and I need to rush a lot of things. Should I just ignore this person or should I ask him/her to refer to someone else? What do you think?

Scenario 4

Person D is taking advantage of what I’m offering most of the time and he/she tends to use me whenever I am available. When I declined to help, he/she would not be happy and would be moody or emotional most of the days etc. It is as if helping him/her is my DUTY… What can I do?

Scenario 5

Person E thinks that I’m his/her best friend, but whenever there is a gathering or luncheon together, he would just ignore my presence. I’m not saying that he/she should always invite me… but the least he/she can do is by not letting me know at all, even after the trip/event. The problem arises when he/she discusses about this thing in front of me but not even allowing me to join in the fun. It hurts. So what’s wrong? How to solve this problem?

These are just some of the problems I’m facing… I don’t want to be selfish but it seemed that I have no choice but the make the best decision for myself. These are the reasons why I had been struggling through this semester. Now that I’ve expressed it, what do you think? Any solutions?